Wouldn't it be nice if you could manage your stress levels? These relaxation techniques for stress management will provide you with the tools you need to help reduce the amount of stress in your life.
Here's the first of my relaxation techniques for stress management:
Relaxation Technique #1: Alternate Responses
This technique works with all aspects of your life, but you should focus on only one at a time. I've included a table after each step to clarify this technique.
1- Starting with your home life, list all incidents where
stress
affects you.
Time of Stress
Stress Trigger
Typical Response
Alternate Response
Winter Holidays
Family Vacation
Move
2- Try to mentally relive some of these moments and pin-point the causes of stress (or stress triggers) for each of these times of stress.
Time of Stress
Stress Trigger
Typical Response
Alternate Response
Winter Holidays
Trying to meet everyone's expectations
Buying gifts, food, etc.
Booking flights and accommodations
Paying Bills
Family Vacation
Making time for everyone to do the activities they enjoy
Losing luggage
Move
New Neighbourhood
Forgetting to change some addresses
Damaged belongings
3- In the next column, try to describe how you normally deal with these stress triggers.
Time of Stress
Stress Trigger
Typical Response
Alternate Response
Winter Holidays
Trying to meet everyone's expectations
Buying gifts, food, etc.
Booking flights and accommodations
Paying Bills
Buy lots of presents
Postpone shopping until Dec
Book flights and accommodations late fall
Pay minimum balance or more if I can afford it
Family Vacation
Making time for everyone to do the activities they enjoy
Losing luggage
Bring more money
Hope it doesn't happen
Move
New Neighbourhood
Forgetting to change some addresses
Damaged belongings
Hope for the best
4- Finally, you have to think about ways to make the stress triggers appear smaller or insignificant. Try to keep it realistic but keep in mind that your lifestyle may be the cause of stress, and as such, lifestyle adjustments may have to be made. Relaxation techniques for stress management do involve a little bit of effort from your part...
Time of Stress
Stress Trigger
Typical Response
Alternate Response
Winter Holidays
Trying to meet everyone's expectations
Buying gifts, food, etc.
Booking flights and accommodations
Paying Bills
Buy lots of presents
Postpone shopping until Dec
Book flights and accommodations late fall
Pay minimum balance or more if I can afford it
Start making list and shopping in July.
Book rooms and flights in summer
Put some money in a holiday savings plan every month
Family Vacation
Making time for everyone to do the activities they enjoy
Losing luggage
Bring more money
Hope it doesn't happen
Book extra activities that your family will like ahead of time
Pack all essentials and enough clothes for a day in your carry-on luggage
Move
New Neighbourhood
Forgetting to change some addresses
Damaged belongings
Hope for the best
Get involved with new community
Walk or cycle in your new neighbourhood
Use the postal office to redirect your mail
Use professional movers and pack extra carefully
5- Repeat for work related stress triggers.
6- When these stress triggers reappear in your life, avoid acting the "old way" and try your "alternate response".